Men have exactly the same rights as women to be safe in their own homes.
All statutory services (such as the police, Crown Prosecution Service, housing departments and social services) have a duty to provide services to all, whatever their gender.
Men are protected by exactly the same laws as women - anyone who has assaulted another person, regardless of the gender of either, can be prosecuted.
- If you are a man experiencing domestic violence and you need emergency help you can call the police on 999.
- If you are not in immediate danger consider the following;
- Recognise and acknowledge that this is happening to you
- Accept you are not to blame
- When an incident seems imminent try to leave the situation as your personal safety is most important
- Do not retaliate physically or verbally this will escalate the situation it may also mean you are more likely to be arrested should the police become involved
- Keep a diary of all incidents, noting down the time and date. Also note any witnesses should there be any
- Keep photographic evidence of your personal injuries
- Report all injuries to your GP or to the local hospital minor injury unit/A&E department
- If you do not call 999 you can ring the police station to make an appointment with a trained domestic violence officer who you can speak to over the phone or in person.
You can take a friend or someone from ESTEEM with you if you feel it necessary
- If you contact the police for any reason you should ensure you obtain a crime reference number for the contact
- Take advice regarding injunctions from a reliable solicitor most solicitors will offer the initial consultation free of charge.
You may also be entitled to legal aid